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Tips for Women
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Say "No" firmly instead of using phrases such as "I don't think so." A firm statement is more believable.
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Be clear, honest, and consistent in your sexual desires and limits.
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Avoid excuses; this is a passive response.
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Be. Repetitive. Repeating "No: may be necessary for the other person to accept and believe it.
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Remember that alcohol and drugs will impair your judgment and your ability to act responsibly.
Tips for Men
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Understand that forced sex is never acceptable; it is rape.
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Accept "No" as "No". Don't read other meanings into the word.
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Be responsible for your own sexual limitations and actions.
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Exert peer pressure on your friends so they understand that forcing sex does no make you a man.
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Remember that alcohol and drugs will impair your judgment and your ability to act responsibly.
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Remember that spending a lot of money, dating for a long time, or previous sexual intercourse, does not obligate your partner to sexual intercourse.
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